(Closed) all your friends want to date same groomsman

posted 7 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Let it be. You don’t even know something will happen, so unitl it does don’t worry about it.

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

LOL. Well unless your Groomsmen is a whore, he can drastically impact the drama or lack of. If he’s a responsible self respectable man he will polietly decline and not lead all 3 of em on if he only has interest in one. He’s just as much responsible for anything that happens then your girls.

Think about it if 3 women hit on him, and he flirts with each and every one of them yeah, drama will ensue. If he’s a decent man, he’ll pick one make it obvious and let that be that.

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Or none of them.

Post # 7
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

How cute is he that everyone is so sprung?

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 1993

Tell them whoever is the most helpful bridesmaid to you gets the room next to him.

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@HawaiiBamaBride: Me too!  I think we need a pic of this Groomsmen.. he must be something!  LoL.

But I totally agree with a PP.. I wouldn’t worry about it.  There’s really no way to “safeguard” this.. they’re all adults and will end up doing whatever they want.  Let’s just hope they have enough respect for you that they wouldn’t do anything drastic to take attention away from (or add unwelcome drama to) your wedding day.  :o)

Post # 12
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Bumble bee

Ummmm I can’t give an opinion utill I see a pic of said Groomsmen *shifty eye*. I looove the “Whoever is most helpful gets the room next to his” idea, lol.

Post # 13
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Bumble bee

My curiosity is…..what do your Girlfriend look like and/or do they have good self confidence?  Typically it’s the other way around, so for them to be so set on this one guy, it just makes me wonder.  Also, do they want to date him or hook up with him?  Hooking up with him on the day will most likely destroy any future possibility of dating.

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