(Closed) Allow +1 at Intimate Wedding?

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: Should I agree to this request for a +1?
    Sure, just let her bring someone. : (4 votes)
    15 %
    No way, it's one afternoon, she can deal with being on her own. : (23 votes)
    85 %
  • Post # 3
    4336 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    I think you’re stressing about it a little too much. Just tell her no (nicely) and I’m sure she’ll understand. She already said it would be fine if you said no.


    Post # 5
    7587 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2010

    She told you it didn’t matter, so I would just say no, if that’s what you wish. Doesn’t sound like a big deal.

    Post # 6
    1126 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    Also, if it’s just your best friend, then I assume she knows your family.  I think it’s fine to not let her bring a date, just tell her and be done with it.

    Post # 7
    634 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    Ehh I would just say no. Small and intimate doesn’t equal family +1 random to me haha

    Post # 8
    4770 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    if it’s not a b/f or husband, than no.  Why would she think it would be appropriate to bring a randomer to your very intamite wedding?

    Post # 9
    814 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: February 2012

    You shouldn’t have anyone you don’t want at your wedding. It’s about you, not your friend. Besides, she said it doesn’t matter either way.

    Post # 10
    1087 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    I think she can handle going stag for an afternoon since your celebration is a handful of people.

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