- 4 years ago
- Wedding: September 2015
It’s not a big deal at all and I’m not having a meltdown over it, so don’t get the wring idea. It really is just a mumble mumble grr type thing. Family is incredibly important to me and I’ve been wanting to do a wedding picture/family tree type thing. We come from families full of loving, strong marriages and I wanted to showcase our role models and support systems. Well, FGMIL is divorced and while they’re friendly enough and he won’t be there, I wouldn’t feel right putting their wedding picture on display when they haven’t been married since FMIL was young. FIs uncle is married, but his wife doesn’t allow contact with the rest of the family, so he also won’t be there and again, I think it would be weird having theirs when no one contacts them. I also haven’t figured out whether that uncle is the one who’s now an aunt, so it could be doubly awkward if he is in fact a she now. And finally my uncle’s been married multiple times with the most recent ending with her hitting herself to accuse my uncle of abuse after he said he was leaving. I don’t want to leave anyone out, but I don’t want to offend, so the idea’s been scrapped for now. It’s merr, but ah well.
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