(Closed) Allowing +1s After Invites???

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
610 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

We pretty much did the same thing. We invited a guest list and all long term couples. Now that we have gotten some no’s back we have allowed some people in newer realtionships to bring a +1. It is soley up to you. But, saying they won’t come because they can’t bring a date kind of goes to show how much they care and how much respect they really have for you and your wedding day.

Post # 4
3049 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 1991

If it were me, I would just leave them off the list. If they were rude about not coming because they can’t bring a date… then they don’t have to come. You saw the true side of them. That’s only if they were actually rude though. If they simply told you that they felt uncomfortable without a date, and would pass, then I would talk to them again and say, “Guess what, we have more space!”

Post # 6
43 posts
  • Wedding: October 2011

I’d leave them off the list. If you were special enough to them, they’d attend your wedding whether or not they were allowed to bring a date. And they threw fits? NO WAY.

Post # 7
1638 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I agree with the above posters. Leave them off. They seem bitter and not worth the amount of money it takes to even mail the invite.


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