- 8 years ago
- Wedding: May 2012
Ok so here is an update… (sorry a little long)
I found out this weekend that there were 2 potential proposal dates that I had that came and went and would have happened if ring wasn’t still in the store getting work done!! UGH!!!! 🙁
It’s good to know that my two desired dates were the ones he was thinking about and I didn’t even tell him. But to know the ring is still getting work done is frustrating that it prevented it from happening the way he wanted it to happen. I felt bad for him! I could tell it’s really bothering him a lot that he can’t get it soon so he could do it the way he wanted.
The first day was NYE…He told me when we were waiting to be seated for dinner that it would have been that night and he was thinking about it being at midnight to “Start the New Year off right.” AWE so sweet. However, I was disappointed to find out that he was going to do the engagement based around my plans not making any of his own. (That really pissed me off; b/c he couldn’t be romantic).
Then yesterday was the Skins/Giants game and we were there tailgating w/some friends when a girlfriend of ours (one the knocked the sense into him to get to this point) said, “Today was supposed to have been that day all along…he was going to do it at the tailgate.” That made me happy and a little upset at the same time b/c he told me one thing then found out something else something totally different. She even went as far as to get a costco cake for both of us! WE made sure to still have some of our cake!! 🙂
Either way I was sad to know it was on the two days I was hoping it would have been and it wasn’t either one due to the ring still being in the shop. Now his asking me, “Why do you have to have the pink stone, what if you just had a diamond?” makes more sense, he would have had it.
I don’t know how to make him know that I’m ok w/the fact it didn’t happen and his intentions were sweet, and get thru to him to find another way to plan w/out me having to make the plans myself. Am I wrong to think it should be HIM making all the plans for when it happens?? Why should he plan around plans we make to do something to do it. (one thing to understand he isn’t able to drive or get around an area w/out saying hey let’s go to XYZ.; so it’s harder for him). But still it shouldn’t be me making the plans. Where’s the surprise in that!!
So if he gets it soon, our 3 year anniv. is Jan. 22nd then there is Valentines day and I KNOW he wouldn’t do it then.