(Closed) Almost a year later still not completely happy with wedding

posted 4 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
26 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2014

Even with all of these mishaps, I am sure you still had a wonderful day.. you married the man of your dreams! I would try to focus on the good things that happened on the day. Maybe thinking about having a big vowel renual for say your 5th wedding anniversary would be something to take your mind off of the bad things. Maybe it would give you the chance to feel like you’re getting a re-do. I hope you dont fret over the wedding day mistakes forever. I’m sure I’d feel the same way you did if that happened to me though. Best of luck!!

Post # 4
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1368 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

Let me just say I think you have a fantastic memory!!!!

Seriously though, I am sure the day went so fast and you did have a great time regardless of these small mistakes.

 

Post # 6
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850 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

How about making a list of 7 things that make you happy about your wedding? Your original list seems more about stuff, what about the people there, words said, songs you danced to?

Post # 7
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2972 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Wynn Las Vegas

The past is the past. Stop overthinking it and be happy that you are done planning and are married to the man you love.

Post # 8
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748 posts
Busy bee

@ricangen81:  Heh.  My wedding was 9 years ago.  My BIL played Pachelbel’s Canon in D during our ceremony….and totally, royally screwed it up.  Like got stage fright and just stopped playing for 30 sec – with the whole church dead silent.  We sort of gave each other frightened glances and finally, finally he started up again.    

Also, the flowers didn’t show up on time, and it was literally 15 mins before the ceremony was supposed to start and my poor mother was running around the vestibule in her pantyhose with her hair half done looking for the flower delivery guys!

My point is, I totally forgot all about that stuff till you brought it up.  And now as I type this I’m smiling and sorta laughing at the memory of it!  At the time it was stressful, and sort of upsetting for a little while after the wedding.  But believe me, all that will fade.  You have your excellent husband now, and in a while you can both go, remember during the wedding when…?  And I bet you guys will laugh  🙂  

Post # 9
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151 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2013 - Little White Wedding Chapel in Las Vegas

Regret is a wasteful thought. Instead of letting something that has already happened and cannot change control you, why not think of it as a learning experience that you can grow from.  Let the regrets go. There is no reason to let it torment you. You deserver to be happy!

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