(Closed) Almost no one showed up to my bridal shower.

posted 7 years ago in Parties
Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Don’t feel unloved or unimportant!! Maybe it was just an inconvenient time for a lot of people. Don’t let this ruin your outlook on your wedding; it sounds like the people closest to you were there anyways. πŸ™‚ *HUGS*

Post # 5
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172 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Aw, I’m sorry to hear that.  Try not to let it get under your skin or mess with your head.  Just focus on your wedding day – I’m sure that will be great!

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

I’m so sorry:( That’s how I felt on my birthday a few years ago. Don’t let something like this mess with your self-worth. It was probably just on a day when people were already busy. Did you get any verbal confirmation from people saying they would come?

Post # 7
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1297 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I’m sorry to hear that you are feeling the way you are.  You are loved and important!!

 

Could it be that the invites were sent to close to the event? Not leaving enough time for people to change plans/make arrangements to get there?

Post # 8
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2190 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

@staying_ms_shaw: oh my goodness πŸ™ I’m so sorry! Don’t feel down about it though–it sounds like the people who mean the most to you were there. And with 450 people coming to your wedding, you will sure feel loved that day! If it makes you feel better, I’m not having a bridal shower since my bridesmaids will be the only friends around and all other friends are out of town!

 

Post # 9
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2576 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I am sorry.

Nothing more to say but ((hugs)).

Post # 10
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436 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

i’m sorry to hear! I have that same fear for my bridal shower! 

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Aww I’m sorry that happened to you!! πŸ™ I agree with the others, that it was probably just a bad weekend for everyone. I haven’t had my shower yet but so far I know at least 2/3rds of the guests invited aren’t coming. My family on my dads side actually scheduled a family event (after my shower invitations went out) on the same day, so not a single person from that side of the family will be there.

Try not to let it get you down! ♥

Post # 12
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108 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I know you have heard it. But I am sorry :(. But look on the bright side, there is the wedding still and you have a guest list of 450 people, wow! That’s a giant wedding πŸ™‚  

Post # 14
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1227 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Oh hon, I’m sorry. That sucks. But the pps are right, it was probably just not a day where many people could make it.

As for the RSVPs, try a couple of searches on here about RSVP deadlines – so, so many brides have experienced the frustration of having to call/email/contact a LOT of people to get them to say whether they were coming to the wedding. Unfortunately (and please don’t take this personally, it’s not meant to be), your wedding will never be as front-and-center in everyone else’s mind as it is in your own. Other things (work, kids, paying bills, keeping their houses clean, etc) get into people’s heads and sometimes they just forget to do even a simple thing like return the RSVP.

Chin up – have one of those wonderful ladies who came to your shower help you contact the people who have not RSVP’d after the deadline, and try to relax about this. I’m sure you’ll end up surrounded by people you love who love you on your big day, and it won’t matter if a few couldn’t make it.

Post # 15
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Aw! I’m so sorry this happened to you πŸ™ Its horrible to feel unloved

I have the same fear about my own bridal shower… I’m pretty sure no one is going to come… even one of the girls who is throwing it for me isn’t actually going to be there.

Post # 16
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152 posts
Blushing bee

Don’t feel unloved! It was probably just an inconvenient weekend for many people.  To be honest most of the showers I have been to have had around 12 guests…usually it is just the moms, close female relatives (sisters, cousins, etc.) and a couple of the bridesmaids.  What’s more important is your wedding day, when you will be surrounded by all of your family and friends!  πŸ™‚

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