- 7 years ago
- Wedding: November 2011
My FH moms took in his exgirlfriends child and now has custody of the child. The Future Mother-In-Law also has custody of her granddaughter. He is the only father that this child has know and was there shortly after she was born. Since meeting me he has moved away from them but calls all the time, although, the child doesn’t call him dad anymore. So being that Christmas and the holidays are coming up, Do you think it would be wise to include the child into our lives possibly buying presents like parents would or do you think I should run at the opportunity and just leave thing the way they are? Its so frustrating because in a way I wouldnt mind if he wanted this child and to bring her to live with us but I also dont want the mother to be in our lives when she is released from jail…HELP!