(Closed) Almost two weeks since he called it off…

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 2
1141 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

It will happen again with someone a million times better!  Give yourself time and don’t rush into things. 

Post # 3
5995 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2014

NicoleLyn1218:  I know it’s really hard, but it’s so much better that it happened now instead of after the marriage. Trust me from someone who’s been there. And you will find a good guy and you will have learned from this experience. Found my way better guy and we are getting married Saturday!

Post # 4
186 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Villa Celeste

I read your post from a few weeks ago, and I’m glad to see an update on how you’re doing. I think one of the hardest parts is done (getting out of the place you shared, regaining independence). If I were you, I would just put my focus into moving forward, working on paying off your debt, etc.

I get where you’re coming from. Before I met my fiance, I met and fell in love with someone I thought I could make a life with. We were even living together and I anticipated a proposal, but it ended because of his infidelity. Leaving him was one of the hardest things I ever did, but looking back on it, I’m very lucky I did. We weren’t right for one another, no matter how much I loved him. It gets hard when you’re lonely, but if you can do something nice for yourself when you feel that way, (even if it’s something as small as taking a long hot shower or painting your nails, listening to good music, etc) it will help you to cope with those moments. One of the best remedies is time, and letting yourself work through your emotions. If you want to cry? cry. If you’re feeling angry, write a letter to him and rip it up. These are all things I’ve done in moments like those. Anyway, you seem like you’re doing well. Keep up the good work, and of course come here when you need people to lean on. 

Post # 5
54 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

I am so, so sorry that you’re going through this.  But I agree with the previous posters that it’s better this happened now, than later into the engagement or even after you were married.  It sucks, and of course you miss things.  But you’ll come back stronger than ever.  AND find someone amazing.

Post # 7
2723 posts
Sugar bee

NicoleLyn1218:  Very happy for you! I know it is tough, you you are making all the right moves to get yourself headed in the right direction.

And it is nice you have a guy friend to atleast cheer you up a litte, regardless of what happens. Sometimes it is nice to have someone to talk to. 

Post # 9
139 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

I just read your previous post on the topic. I am so so sorry you have to go through this! But I’m glad you’re feeling a bit better. Just be strong and I am sure that someone special is on the stars for you in the near future. Hugs!

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