(Closed) Already an uninvited +1!

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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2634 posts
Sugar bee

Eekkkkk!  Maybe she just assumes she’ll get a +1? 

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Well, too bad for her when she get’s the invite with no plus 1 on it. You are not obligated to invite her and give her a plus 1. You know what they say about assuming? you make an Ass-out- of u-and me hehehe

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I think we have to remember sometimes that people outside of the wedding world don’t think about cost and space constrictions and are used to being allowed to bring a guest to a wedding.  It wasn’t until after I was engaged that I even realized there were some people that didn’t let friends bring a guest.  I completely understand the reasoning behind it… and am debating how I’ll handle the situation still… but I wouldn’t be so hard on her. 

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2009

wow. facebook.

Post # 8
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205 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Forreal? how can she just invite people to your wedding without running it by you first? i am going to be so super mad if people do that to me. I am already going crazy about the guest list already if it happens and certain people show up without telling me I will become Bridezilla and let them have it!

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2009

Yeah….I’m hearing this through the grapevine about guests that I’ve invited, so I’m spreading back through the same grapevine, that unless your invite had two names or a “name and guest” you’re going to be coming solo.  I think there a couple of people who are offended and aren’t coming, but I’m not sure what else to do!  If they just show up with a guest, there’s not a lot I can do, but if I hear about it beforehand, I’m going to try to inform them that it’s not ok.  I made rules about plus ones, trying to keep things reasonable, and I’m going to stick by them darnit!  Maybe you could mention this to your cousin in a “joking, but I’m totally serious” kind of way?

Post # 10
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Bee Keeper

*sigh*  Wow.  Well maybe she’ll forget about it by the time the invite gets there.  Or maybe someone will bring +2 without telling you.  Common-sense wedding ettiquette isn’t so common anymore!

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