(Closed) Already bought gift but now bride changed registry. What to do???

posted 6 years ago in Gifts and Registries
  • poll: What should I do about the gift I already purchased?
    Exchange it for something else on her registry. : (3 votes)
    4 %
    Give it as planned and let her worry about exchanging it. : (68 votes)
    96 %
    Other : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
    216 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    Give them and let her worry about it. She probably took them off due to being clearanced or something. But she thanked you, so you should give them. I hope you got a gift receipt because she’ll have a hard time returning them if she removed it from her registry. In the end, it’s her problem though.

    Post # 4
    741 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    Maybe she changed the registry because she wanted both? She already knew you bought the gift, so she should be expecting it and it’s up to her to exchange it if that is what she wants. It’s not really your problem though. 

    If it was someone close to me, I would call and make the extra effort. Otherwise I wouldn’t worry too much about it. 

    Post # 5
    7561 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: January 2013

    Give them! She probably still wants them (since she thanked you) or if not, she’ll figure it out. 

    Post # 6
    10572 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: January 2011

    I would say exchange it if you wanted to, but since she already knows you bought them to stick with them!

    Post # 7
    214 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: March 2014

    Give it to her. If she removed it that is her issue and she will have to deal with returning or exchanging it. 

    Post # 8
    986 posts
    Busy bee

    Give them to her! And let her deal with exchanging them should she choose to do so. 🙂

    Post # 10
    2781 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    I think it’s more of a case where a new set came out that she liked more so she changed what was on her registry. The problem is the other set should have showed up on her registry as bought, which means she shouldn’t have been able to change it after the fact, but just add another item. 

    I would exchange it for the new item listed, you getting the gift so much in advance means she likely won’t be able to return it for the one she wants.

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