- 6 years ago
Ok, after reading many of the blogs on here and all y’alls advice and the Mr. Bee Steps thingy, I’ve decided on one thing.
My boyfriend and I’ve had an amazing relationship (9 years in October) – ‘mind you we’ve been together since high school. This past week was rough…we don’t hardly fight, but this past week it almost ended. I got jealous when he would go out and that completely turned him off. We’ve worked through it.
Recently (about 5 months) I’ve been, I would say naggy about getting married. We went to look at ring 6 months ago (his idea) and since then it’s been hard keeping my mouth shut. Since our fight, I’ve realized it’s not about the actual ring it’s the symbolism and that I don’t want the ring I picked out, I want something simple and meaningful.
So, after our week fighting, and we’re better now. I’m going to talk to him about getting married one more time and the idea of a new (less expensive) ring or a CZ ring and how I feel about him and what it means to me. I’m going to try, with everything in me, to never bring it up again! I need strength bees!! During our fight he actually told me he went with his mom twice to look at rings and he was pissed when I showed him a proposal gone viral, because he had the same idea. So, even during out fight, he was thinking about it.
Send strength and good words my way!! Thank you for the support!!