(Closed) Alternative Bridal Shower Ideas????

posted 3 years ago in Gifts and Registries
Post # 2
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

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LoganElizabeth : 

  • She could host a recipe shower. Each guest is mailed a recipe card along with the invitation and asked to share one of their favorite recipes. Sometimes the idea is extended to including the staple or pantry ingredients to make the recipe.
  • A variation of the first idea is for guests to share their recipe for marriage.
  • You could have a date night shower. Each guest prepares a basket for  date night e.g a movie, popcorn and hot chocolate.
  • A honeymoon shower- guests bring items to suit the honeymoon choice like sunscreen, flip flops for a beach

The following ideas are more controversial. Some people will say that if you don’t need “things”, you should not have a shower, instead choose a brunch or luncheon.

  • You could invite the guests to bring something for a local animal shelter instead of gifts for you- pet food, blankets etc
  • You could choose to donate gifts to a Habitat for Humanity family or refugee family who do need those traditional shower gifts
  • Guests can bring gifts for the bride’s hobbies- wool for knitting, paper etc for scrapbooking

 

Post # 4
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

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LoganElizabeth :  You will find that, in fact, not everyone will be watching you. Often they will be chatting amongst themselves, take a cursory glance when you display and  ooh and ah over the gift, then go back to their conversation.

Have your Maid/Matron of Honor or one of the BM’s sit beside you, not only to make a list of the gifts and write what the gift was on the back of the card, but also to have someone to feel comfortable with and to make those offhand comments to.

Post # 5
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2015

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LoganElizabeth :  I usually have no problem with being the center of attention but I found gift opening at my shower super uncomfortable. I think it was because none of it was really a surprise- I had, after all, registered for almost all of the gifts. 

My Maid/Matron of Honor did the recipe card in the invitation thing. Almost no one came prepared (but that might vary by family), but she did have extras on hand and people used those. I got some good recipes including family recipes I specifically requested. People were encouraged to do more than one and we used the cards to pull for raffle prizes. Unfortunately the first two “winners” were joke recipes (my friend’s recipe for a peanut butter & jelly sandwich and my sister’s mac & cheese recipe that began with “Open box of Kraft mac & cheese…”) lol. But all in all- I’m in love with my pretty recipe box with recipes handwritten by people I love. It’s something I’m going to treasure for years I’m sure. 

Post # 7
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Newbee
  • Wedding: April 2018 - Family Ranch

 

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LoganElizabeth :  If you have anxiety over everyone watching you open gifts and do the whole BINGO game, have them bring non wrapped gifts and maybe a couples shower? Little more informal and less pressure! You can mingle and have yard games, along with some other bridal games (toilet paper dresses and you judge them, purse game, etc) and snacks and still be able to get gifts but not be so much pressure! 

Post # 8
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Newbee
  • Wedding: April 2017 - Sunset Beach Resort, Siesta Key

Ahhh this was me! I did NOT want a shower and I made it very clear to everyone. Of course, that didn’t stop anyone. But they ended up doing a very small bridal “luncheon” at a beautiful tea room where we had some campagne, light snacks and just chatted. 

In the end, it felt really nice and I was so grateful for the love. But believe me….a LOT of anxiety came prior. 

Never thought I would say this with how much I refused, but try to enjoy the love that everyone is sending your way right now. 

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