(Closed) alternative to father giving away daughter?

posted 7 years ago in Ceremony
Post # 3
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

1.The officiant could ask your parents if they bless this marraige and accept these two people as life partners.

2Officiant: .Others would ask, at this time, who gives the bride in marriage,
but, as a woman is not property to be bought and sold, given and
taken, I ask simply if she comes of her own will and if she has
her family’s blessing.

Julia, is it true that you come of your own free will and accord?

Julia Yes, it is true.
PRIEST With whom do you come and whose blessings accompany you.

FATHER She comes with me, her father, and is accompanied by all
of her family’s blessings.

 

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I think their blessing is implied in a way, with them being there and bringing you down the aisle and everything. I am getting married in a church and the priest told me they never do the “who gives this bride” bit. He explained that it’s a blessing to have your parents there and that’s all I should ask of them.

Honestly I think when the father of the bride shakes his son in law’s hand and puts her hand in his, he’s showing that he accepts their marriage in a nice, simple way.

Post # 6
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@smactley: those were two different options- the first is much more informal

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

i am having both my parents walk me down the aisle.  during the ceremony, there will be a flower giving to our parents – thanking them for all they have done for us in life.  maybe you could do something like that?

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