(Closed) Always feels like FI is never listening

posted 6 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 3
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909 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I would stay home, for what it’s worth. The friend already doesn’t like you AND you don’t want to go anyway. Drop them off and tell him to take a cab home. Or hell, offer to come get him when it’s over even. But you can bail. 

Post # 4
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807 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

How are you being forced to go? Take the car and go home. Tell him to call a cab. If he learns there are consequences to not paying attention to what you say…maybe he will start to listen!

Post # 5
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205 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

and why exactly are you with a man who will let his friend bad mouth you? Doesn’t sound like your man has any respect for you.

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2017

I like metal, but if I didn’t I can’t imagine how awful going to a metal show would be, it’s not like you can “get away” from it while you’re there. It’s definantly a specific scene.

So I would 100% take a pass on it, explain to him nicely you didn’t want to go, you don’t want to go, and you’re not going.

F the friend, who cares what some idiot that has no manners or respect thinks of you. And tell your dude to stand up for you about that.

It’s wonderful to compromise in a relationship, for example, I’m going to a tractor pull……a freakin tractor pull because my SO is super excited to take me (lol…ugh). But I don’t have homework, I don’t feel icky, and I will be able to stand it. If it were something I would hate he’d never pressure me or let his friends talk smack about me over it. MAKE him listen. If he doesn’t, do what you want anyway. He’ll figure it out.

 

Post # 7
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246 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Go home!

School ALWAYS trumps everything else in life in my book. Going to a concert might be fun for one night, but getting good grades determines the rest of your life. 

Post # 8
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201 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I agree with others – why did you go? Just go home. I think you’re sending mixed messages. You said “no” once, but went anyway. Stand your ground. School comes first!

Post # 9
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831 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Back up.

“He asked of I wanted to go (in front of the friend who is show it is, after the friend had just finished telling my Fiance what a bitch I was and how much he didnt like me, right in front of me).”

What? What did your Fiance say to his friend after he said this?

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

You have free will. Don’t go if you don’t want to!

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