(Closed) Am I a crazy person?

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Have you ever had a dream your SO/DH/FI has cheated on you/dumped you and has affected your mood?
    Yes : (62 votes)
    74 %
    No : (17 votes)
    20 %
    You are a crazy person!! :) : (5 votes)
    6 %
  • Post # 3
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 1994

    My husband is the one who has those dreams, then tells me how mean I am! LOL!

    Post # 5
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    I’ve totally had one or two dreams like that, and it can definitely bum out my whole day! I’ve also had dreams where I’m the one who cheated or did something horrible, then I walk around the whole day full of guilt! Same has happened with my Fiance. We share about it and laugh, but damn, sometimes it just feels so real.

    Post # 6
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    I had a weird dream similar to that… It was brief though. I was slightly sad at first and then I told my Fiance about it and laughed it off. I told him he was a total jerk in my dream. lol. 🙂

    Post # 8
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    I’ve had those dreams, but it doesn’t affect my mood the next day. Unless you count waking up sad for 2 seconds before huge relief hits.

    Post # 9
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    Helper bee

    If it’s a totally crazy dream that doesn’t make sense it doesn’t affect me, but if it’s a realistic dream it always makes me sad!

    Post # 10
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    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2019

    I have had a couple of dreams like that, had a dream once where Fiance cheated on me with my then best friend, and then with my sister on the same day. I woke up crying my eyes out, it felt so real! I have had a couple where he cheated with strangers, but mostly any cheating dreams have been him cheating on me with someone I know.

    Post # 11
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    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: February 2013

    Early on in our relationship, I had a dream that Fiance dumped me. I actually woke up crying!

    Post # 12
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    My stepmom has had those dreams and been REALLY mad at my dad afterward lol. One time she had a dream that she caught me smoking and spent the whole weekend mad at me! I think it’s pretty common, I don’t honk you’re a crazy person at all!!

    Post # 13
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2013 - Brookfield Zoo

    Haha~~ yes!  I’ve had dreams like that I think 3 times now.. the first time I was soooo irritable… the 3rd time it barely got to me at all, though!

    Post # 14
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    I’ll wake up and be all angry for a whole 2 or three seconds. When he wakes up I’ll tell him “I wanted to slug you when I woke up this morning. How could you cheat on me in my dreams?” And we laugh about it. But most mornings when I have dreams like that and wake up I reach over and hug him because I’m so releived it was just a dream

    Post # 15
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    Buzzing bee

    I’m a terrible dreamer and I talk and cry in my sleep – FML.

    I often have dreams where FI-to-be cheats on me and he has to wake me up as I’m sobbing into my pillow, it’s rather embarrassing! 

    He’s never done anything to warrant my dreams (the poor guy always feels guilty that he upsets me, even though its only is dream – obviously) but I have slight abandonment issues, which is why he thinks I dream of losing him. 

    Post # 16
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 1994

    @Brickette- I get that all the time”how can you be so mean in my dreams?” 🙂

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