(Closed) Am I a total jerk?

posted 10 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
563 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

As long as the dresses are easily returnable (and no deposits are lost), and you offered to do the work of returning them,  I think that you are fine.  But please make sure that you thoroughly research the replacement dresses before placing your next order and offer to do all of the work in ordering the replacement gowns.

Post # 4
1091 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2018 - Oakland Manor

The EXACT same thing happened to me – but they couldn’t return them.  Luckily only 2 had been purchased – but still.  So the I put them on bridal classifieds and I’ll probably try ebay soon too to sell them.  I’ll pay them the difference and if the dress doesn’t sell then I’ll pay them the cost for the dress.  I felt liek a douche, but the girls seem happier with the other dress choices so that’s a plus.

Post # 5
2640 posts
Sugar bee

As long as they aren’t out the money and you handle the leg work, there shouldn’t be a problem.  Double check the swatches at the salon with whatever you’re trying to match it to,  Good luck.

Post # 6
5398 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

You offered to do the work and if they aren’t out of money, then it should be okay.  I think as long as you don’t do this to them several times they really won’t mind.

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