Am I allowed?

posted 1 week ago in Rings
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  • Post # 3
    213 posts
    Helper bee

    They mightor might not think you are married… real question being, do you care?

    Post # 4
    329 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: April 2022

    They will probably assume you’re married, but does it really matter what others think? especially if it doesn’t affect them 🙂

    If they persist, ask they why they’re so invested in your personal jewelry 


    Post # 5
    960 posts
    Busy bee

    Id have to see the exact enhancer, but generally yes I think it would look like an additional band, thus “looking” married. But it doesnt seem like that big of a deal to me! Unless it’s very important that you look “only” engaged, do what you want, its just a ring!

    Post # 6
    2658 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: City, State

    I think it depends on the enhancer.  If it’s one that adds “side stones” or a halo, then people will probably think it’s all one piece if they look closely.  If it’s one that has pave or small diamonds all along the band, then it may look like it’s a wedding set. 

    My opinion is that you should do whatever you’d like if bling is your style– you should enjoy what you’re wearing! 

    Post # 8
    1233 posts
    Bumble bee

    I’d assume you’re married but… who cares? The people who actually know you, know you’re engaged. Hardly any stranger is going to pay mine to whether you’re married or not, they hardly care. Do what you want! 

    Post # 9
    8370 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

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    @meangirlapril:  Yes and yes. You are certainly allowed, but people will think you’re married. If those assumptions will make you feel awkward or aggravated, I’d skip it. If you can let them roll off your back, then have fun with the extra sparkles.

    Post # 10
    3815 posts
    Honey bee

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    @meangirlapril:  That is beautiful! I say wear it and who cares if you are actually married yet or not. It’s not like there’s some ring law out there ❤️

    Post # 11
    242 posts
    Helper bee

    I would assume those are wedding bands, but hey, wear whatever you like!

    What’s your plan for a wedding ring? 

    Post # 12
    10405 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper

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    l don’t think , (that’s if l thought about a strangers rings at all) that l’d assume married because those curved enhancer type rings don’t look like wedding rings to me.  But as pps have said, those who know you,  know your marital status , what strangers know or not is irrelevant. 

    Post # 13
    3531 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: March 2017

    I’d assume you were married. I have an enhanced/wrap and I consider it my wedding band. However, you are allowed to do whatever you want because it’s your hand. 

    Post # 14
    7816 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: February 1997

    I’d assume you were married, but would you care? If you wear the enhancer now, what will you wear as a wedding band? 

    Post # 15
    13561 posts
    Honey Beekeeper

    You’re “allowed” to do as you please and I’d assume you are married. 

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