(Closed) Am I becoming asexual?

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
Member
4606 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

I’ve had my sex drive completely flat line before, although not for the reasons you have. FH and I weren’t seeing each other much and both of us were always too tired to even try to do it. It was tough sometimes because I’ve always enjoyed sex and wanted to have sex and to have it suddenly go away was weird. 

I think that whenever FH gets out it’ll come back to you, kind of like I got mine back when FH and I moved in together. 

Post # 5
Bee
1433 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012 - Historic Lougheed House

With women, at least I’ve found: the more you have sex, the more you want to have sex and the hornier you’ll be.  If you abstain, you’ll sort of slip into a no-sex-pattern and thats okay.. especially since your Fiance is incarcerated right now. 

I would wait until he’s out to really make a judgement – I guarantee it’ll come back.  

Post # 6
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837 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@Mrs. Eagle:  That’s been my experience, definitely. When my ex and I broke up, we hadn’t had sex in a few months and it was easy to avoid jumping head-first into a rebound sex-based relationship after that. But once I did have sex again, it was all I could do to keep my hands to myself, heh. I agree that there’s a good chance that that’s all that is going on here. 

Post # 7
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4478 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Losing your sex drive does not make you asexual.  A lot of things can cause you to lose your sex drive, including stress.  You probably don’t have anything to worry about.

Post # 9
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8042 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

@Lonely16:  I think that’s pretty normal. I am sure you will get it back when he returns. 3 years is a long time… just like anything else, it’s a habit you’ve gotten into. I’ve been in ruts that lasted a year+ and I didn’t miss it… I just got used to not having it.

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