(Closed) Am I being a bad friend by picking such a similar date?

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Wait… what? She’s upset because your dates are 365 days apart? That’s ridiculous.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

She really is just being selfish if she gets mad about it.  I don’t think you’re a bad friend!  It’s a whole YEAR and a DAY apart =)

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

That’s crazy talk. What’s her problem.. that you’ll be celebrating your anniversaries the same week?

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

She doesn’t get to claim a whole month or whatever.  So weird.  No, you aren’t a bad friend.  She is being weird.

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

For real?

(I mean I know you’re real, and this post is real, but for serious, is your friend… for real?  This is absurd.)

Post # 10
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2011

Oh it’s just the same date…. Other than the fact that yours is a WHOLE year before hers.

I think you should definitely talk to her, apologize for the offense.

But otherwise by the time her’s even comes around for Save the Dates or invites Nobody is going to be remembering or thinking “Oh geeze…. they had almost the same date”

Do your part in apologizing for the offense and then just realize that hurting people hurt people… there’s something in her making her feel insecure and offended about it… let her keep her junk 😉

 

Post # 11
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

umm, i could see where your friend would be coming from. it would annoy me– because the concept of your date is so similar to hers, AND you chose your date after the chose hers.

Post # 13
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I’m sorry, that is ridiculous.  People like that must not have real problems to worry about.

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Yeah, she’s out of line on this one. They’re a whole year apart. If it was me and my friend, I’d think it was cool.

Post # 15
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I dont  get it.

Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

We stole our best man’s date.  We jokingly said we hoped they didn’t mind, but honestly I would have been really taken aback if they had said yes.  It was the best date for us, and really, if I had eliminated all the dates of friends wedding (past and future) as potential wedding dates I’m not sure we could have found one that worked. 

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