Post # 76
This is very sad but kind of understandable – you have been with this guy since age 21 (how old is he by the way – I am betting he is older) – you depend on him to support you – it must be hard to picture leaving him. But you deserve so much better. Even if you had to go live with your parents/other family for a bit, it would be worth it. This relationship is finished and it doesnt matter if you still love him, it is clearly time to move on.
Post # 77
Oh, Bee. This relationship is already long over, at least from his side–he’s just hoping to get laid before you move out. That’s all.
Love yourself enough to move on, now, as soon as possible. He’s NOT going to have some sudden epiphany and decide you’re the love of his life and he wants to fulfill all your hopes and dreams. It’s NOT going to happen. You have to let it go.
Post # 78
You are not a bad girlfriend, but HE is a bad boyfriend. I skimmed through your old posts: he has told you 3 months ago that he does not want marriage, does not want kids, but you are still here. Why bee? What is he giiving you? He ignores you when you talk, he disrepects you, he does not see/plan a future with you, he makes advances toward you just because you’re “here.” This is not a loving relationship. Bee, leave this man and go explore the world. There are so many opportunities and better men out there!
Post # 79
minnewanka : Wow thank you this is eye opening.
Post # 80
Ew what did I just read? This relationship is near death and you keep dragging it along like it’s going to come back to life. Just put it out of its misery already. This is not a good relationship now and certainly won’t be if it’s made long distance. He doesn’t care about you. I’m sorry to be blunt, but he doesn’t. Because guess what? People who care about you don’t tell you to stop talking. They want to hear about your day. They want you for more than just sex. What you’re describing isn’t a relationship, it’s not even friends with benefits because you’re not friends. He’s just a really bad roommate.
Girl, go get an awesome job out of state. Maybe travel a bit. Date yourself for a while and figure out what it is you enjoy doing and what it is you want out of life. Drop this loser once and for all.