- 4 years ago
- Wedding: June 2013
i have had so many problems with my sister (she is a bridesmaid) during my wedding planning.
it is a long long story but i’ll put some key points
-she told me my wedding was stupid, and my ideas were dumb
-she told my the bridesmaids dress was so ugly i should buy her something to change into after the ceremony
-didn’t order her dress by the deadline, i gave her a new one, didnt order it, i asked her to step down as a bridesmaid, let her back in and she says she ordered the dress, and has it but wont show me it
-she got engaged (which i was excited about) but then everytime my wedding comes up she brings up hers, she tried to elope multiple times to beat me to getting married, she picked colors that are almost exactly like mine, she picked my FI’s birthday as her wedding date
-she still has yet to buy her son, the ringbearer his clothes for the wedding which is in 11 days
-she has not answered one single wedding related email the entire year ihave been planning
-everytime i asked her for help, or asked if she wanted to come along when i was doing wedding errands she would ignore me or cancle.
-she is not coming to my bridal shower, or rehearsal or rehearsal lunch and hasnt even told me yet. she told my mom, and it got back to me.
and these are just wedding related problems. we have a lot other problems also
but here is my latest problem: she just found out she is pregnant, thinks she is about 7 weeks, and announced it to everyone today (10 days before my wedding!) she isnt married yet, her FI is deployed, and she says it was an accident but they are happy. she said she did not know the medication she was on would cause her bc to not work (first of all everyone knows that, secondly, she is a nurse!! she should know that). and i do not know anyone who would announce a pregnancy so early.
am i a bridezilla for being upset? my older sister (my MOH) and i both feel like she announced it now on purpose to take attention away from my wedding. because she lives for attention.
oh and also, she did not tell me or my MOH, she told everyone else in our family, and her FI’s family. we found out via facebook, and my mom.
eta: she met her fiance in september 2012. they got engaged in february 2013. up until the day she met her FI she said i was stupid for wanted to get married, id end up divorced and alone and all that! so it is all kind of rushed.