(Closed) Am I being a total brat?

posted 6 years ago in Parties
  • poll: Was I being a brat?
    yes : (7 votes)
    13 %
    no : (45 votes)
    87 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    5002 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: September 2013

    I would be upset too, but now all you can do is move on. I guess the lesson here is to be more involved in planning things yourself. Keep it in mind for your bridal shower or day-of wedding things. 

    Post # 4
    Member
    667 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    I don’t think you are being a brat at all! I think it was incredibly rude of the one bridesmaid to basically take over the party and essentially make it about her. It is your party and everyone should have gone to the bar where you wanted to go. If she wanted to hang out with her sister so bad, she should have declined to go to your choice and you could have met up again later in the night.  As for forgetting to make the dinner reservations, that sucks but that isn’t so bad. People forgot things all the time but there is no sxcuse for the bridesmaid that was being selfish and controlling and not taking your feelings into cosideration. I’m sorry you had such a crappy time 🙁

    Post # 5
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    9917 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2013

    Ten bridesmaids sounds like a nightmare!!!  I hate trying to plan for things to happen in large groups.  I’m sorry you had such a bad time.  I’d call up the bridesmaids who were awesome that night and go out for champagne with them!!

    Post # 9
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    9917 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2013

    @PriceIsRight:  Wait, when is your wedding?  Didn’t it just happen?

    Post # 10
    Member
    11 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    You’re not being bratty AT all.. To be honest, what you went through is actually why I am not having a bachelorette party, and why I am having a small wedding. I’m not giving my friends/family members the chance to ruin the experience for me, just don’t let yours ruin it for you! Remember, this day and all the events leading up to it are in celebration of your and you SO.

     

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