(Closed) Am I being childish? Please help Hive….

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: Am I being childish?
    Yes : (97 votes)
    87 %
    No : (9 votes)
    8 %
    Other (comment below) : (5 votes)
    5 %
  • Post # 3
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    I apologize in advance.  You are being a baby.  Seriously?  All this over a movie? 

    Post # 4
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    5800 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2011

    Its not like she invited this girl to crash your bachelorette party, its a movie. I would just be gracious and invite the other bride to be (making your Maid/Matron of Honor see the movie twice would be ridiculous).

    Post # 6
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    Honestly… take it as a chance to meet a new person who you probably have things in common with (getting married and a friend)….since you hadn’t set your plans in stone, it doesn’t seem that your Maid/Matron of Honor did anything wrong and you can still have fun and see the movie, just having another person along.

    Post # 7
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2008

    I agree you’re kind of being a little sensitive. Yes, she’s your maid of honor but that doesn’t mean she has to hang out with you every time you plan something. You can continue having girls days after the wedding.

    Post # 8
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    @anonbride: I am going to go against the norm here and say that I would be upset as well. This was meant to be a fun time for you to spend with your girls and the fact that your Maid/Matron of Honor was rude enough to except another invite sucks. Now, maybe your Maid/Matron of Honor forgot you asked and it was accidental, but you should tell her how you feel. Just let her know that you really wanted to take your girls to see it as a bonding time since you will be doing so much together in the next year. But I wouldn’t forrce her to see it twice. And if she still insists on bringing the other girl and you are not comfortable with it, then I would just go without her. Like PP’s said, it is just a movie and you will have plenty of time to do other stuff with the girls 🙂

    Post # 9
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: December 2013

    I’m the forgetful type and very frequently commit to plans with one set of friends and then make plans with another set for the same time. So if you did tell her she could have just simply forgot. I understand why you would be upset about this. On the other hand it’s just a movie and I don’t think its worth the hassle of tension in your relationship. You may have some things in common with the other bride and could make for some great conversations.

    Post # 10
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    4371 posts
    Honey bee

    Maybe your Maid/Matron of Honor got confused or forgot? 

    Post # 11
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: December 2009

    I’ve seen alot of girls on the hive get upset about their friends flaking out on them.  Which is basically what is happening here.  She made plans with a friend.  Then the friend bailed on her to make plans with someone else.  I find it very hard to believe no one would be upset by that.

    Post # 12
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    I’m middle of the road on this one.  I don’t really think it’s that big of a deal and would probably invite your MOH’s friend to join you on Friday (rather than you rearrange your plans and go on Sunday).  You also said you invited your mom and other girls, so I would stick with what you had planned.

    The fact that you couldn’t remember whether you invited her makes me think she may not have remembered either.  I wouldn’t be mad, but I would stick to my original plan since you also invited others.

    Post # 13
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    1269 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: January 2011

    It’s a little childish.  It’s just a movie.  Not Bridesmaid or Best Man or wedding dress shopping.

    Post # 15
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    236 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    Im sorry but youre being way childish its just a movie… and in all the excitement she could have forgot that she was going with you and everyone… so let the other girl come with your group its not that serious

    Post # 16
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    Newbee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    When I have a wedding issue… I ask myself… in 50 years when my husband and I are sitting together…. will it matter??? So ask yourself….in 50 years will ya’ll going to see the movie together really matter? Probably not.

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