(Closed) Am I being "ghosted" or am I overthinking this?

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 196
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

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Cupcakenurse:  good for you for moving on. You deserve so much better. Wish I had handled my situation as well as you seem to be handling yours. 

Post # 197
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: March 2015

ha! I remember ghosting as I know it happened to me in my 20s and it happened to friends. One thing I noticed is that those guys always came back months or years later trying to get your attention and none of them are married yet into their mid thirties. 99% of the time the guy happen to have another love interest and that is why he disappeared. Never feel bad that you sent the last texts or message asking if he was ok and such. People are telling you it will stroke his ego however you are a good respectful person and don’t let a guy who isn’t make you act spiteful back. It’s not about getting even. how you responded was the better road.

Post # 198
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

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Cupcakenurse:  Good for you for moving on. You deserve better!

Post # 199
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

 

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Cupcakenurse:  Awesome update to the weirdest dating story I’ve heard! You handled it beautifully.

Post # 200
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

you have such a good attitude about this. and i’m glad you’re getting out and doing something fun over the time you have off. AND i hope you do deliver a kettlebell to the dick when you see him. hahaha. best thing ever.

Post # 201
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2015

 

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Cupcakenurse:  I followed your story sine you originally posted and just wanted to say you have such a great attitude and YOU GO GIRL! I’m glad you’re going to visit your friend to have a girls week that will be awesome. It really seems like you’re making the best of this hard situation by keeping yourself busy and taking care of yourself. I’m happy for you and you’re an example to many! Keep it up 🙂

Post # 203
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2016 - Surfer\'s Beach, Grand Cayman

Haha that’s amazing! I really hope he tries to check in at the hotel. 

Post # 204
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2015

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Cupcakenurse:  Oh my gosh. I just read this story for the first time but I am SOOOO happy you handled it with so much grace and that you got your hotel money back!! I was seriously going to offer to call for you. I used to be an emergency travel agent- basically I’d deal with hotels/airlines when something went wrong- and I was the queen of getting shit out of them that they didn’t want to give up! 

Somewhere on the Bee I have a thread from this totally asshole who just stopped calling/texting and then a freaking YEAR later decided to text me something sexual. When I ignored that he text something sweet a couple months later! LOL Idiot. I’m betting this dude is going to pop up again in a few months. Don’t fall for it!

Post # 206
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Helper bee

Casper the asshole ghost…lol!! will you be my friend?

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