- 6 years ago
Hello sexy ladies,
Hmm how do I not stretch this out to long? Ok well a couple of weeks ago I wrote a post in regards to my boyfriend asking me to write him a letter with all of my hopes dreams goals for the future ( He is in the war in afgan at the moment). We have been living together for about 8 months and we have been seeing eachother for about a year an a half… im 26 he is 28 and he will be back mid this year.
I was asking people if they think that I should write about my desigre to get married sometime in the near future ( amoungst my other plans) or whether I should wait for his hopes dreams goals letter to get to me first so I could suss out what his expectations were before I pushed the marrige card..
I ended up writing to him a very general letter which was kind of like , I want to get better at my job, I want to have financial security, and I want to have an amazing partner who loves me as much as I love him. ( you feeling the general?)
anyway I received his letter a couple of days ago and it was really lovely – it said stuff like I want my job to take a back seat so we can create more memories together, I want to get a dog, he wants to see me get improve with my studies, and where he sees us living in the future and then he said ” If there is anything you should get out of my rambling is that you are in all of my plans”
– I thought this letter was awesome and I appreciate that he can communicate this to me, its just that I already knew I was in his future plans- these are subjects that we have discussed before he left – So to be honest with you while it was lovely I was expecting something a little bit more maybe…especially seeing as it was his idea to start all of this..
he mentioned in his letter that he wants to know everything baout me and that I should not hold back with the questions….
So I replied to his letter very positivley saything that our goals and dreams match up nicely and that I share his desigre to create more memories with eachother.
In my concluding sentence I wrote “Where do you see marrige and children fitting into the grand scheme of things?” One sentence in a 4 page letter—- TOO MUCH??
Any chance you think he might of wanted to hear this from me?
Do you think that he might be feeling me out for a proposal?
Do you think that last sentence of mine will freak him out?
Thanks ladies… Im very anxious about this …any feedback would be appreciated..