(Closed) Am I Being Ridiculous???

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
432 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

You are not being rediculous, getting antsy is to be expected πŸ™‚

Post # 4
6015 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

Yeah i think the worst part is you KNOW the ring is just freakin sitting there!!!  Take a deep breath and go work out or something to take your mind off it… i know it’s almost impossible but if you can get your mind off it by keeping busy … it helps!

Post # 5
622 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

Aww welcome to wedding bee… i’m going to take a guess that he’s going to purpose in costa rica but didn’t want to risk having it in your house to find and thats why its still at the jewelers. Or its just safer there in their vault then in his bed side drawer you are going to costa rica?? thats AWESOME! i would bet money that he’s going to ask you then. give him a break let him make it special πŸ™‚ good luck and Have fun!!!!

Post # 8
4803 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

No you’re not being ridiculous!  This would drive me nuts too.  Actually, it did since my bf left my ring at the jewellers for about three weeks!  And now it’s been sitting in a bedroom drawer for about a month and a half…argh!!

Post # 9
115 posts
Blushing bee

From a logical standpoint I can see why leaving it with the jeweler is a good idea. If I were a guy, I could see myself doing that if it’s not insured yet or if there was a set date I want to propose on, but don’t want the risk of it being in the house because you live with him. 

Post # 10
22 posts

I am going to say something that is probably not popular but I would want someone to say it to me.  “Yes you are being ridiculous”. 

Okay, so let me clarify, when I get anxious I think crazy ridiculous things. i.e. boyfriend is coming home early – oh my god why is he coming home early …”insert ridiculous thought here”

When you aren’t in this heightened state you wouldn’t think “he doesn’t love me or he wouldn’t leave it there”  Silly – you know it is silly. 

You are stressed so ridiculous thoughts are NORMAL.  But still ridiculous, so you just have to kind of take a step back and talk to a friend and have them laugh and you can laugh and they will say “Girl – you’re crazy, of course he loves you”. Cause he does – he probably has some reason for leaving it – it is a big purchase perhaps he is afraid to bring it home and lose it, seems more likely then the alternative πŸ™‚  Deep breaths…this too shall pass πŸ™‚

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