(Closed) Am I Being Ridiculous?

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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2018 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

Um, mo you’re right. He committed to the yard sale/garden plan first then he should honor that, go hunting another day and stop giving you the silent treatment. Oh, tell him he’s bahaving like a child too:)

Post # 4
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4693 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@gocubbies:  I think this is one of those “boys are stupid” moments.   I’m sure he just didn’t realize how important and exciting your plans were to you, I know my SO wouldn’t unless I explicitly told him, “THIS IS IMPORTANT.  Don’t make any other plans.”  At least he fixed it and cancelled his other plans.  And poo on him for giving you the silent treatment. 

Post # 5
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183 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

guys dont get it. they really dont. 

you have to be clear, and make sure he gets it.
it cant be you thought he thought you knew he knew kind of thing. 

ITs annoying, and it wont be the first or last time.
just make sure all plans are clearly discussed and agreed upon so this confusion can be put aside.

Good luck! and remember guys arent that smart…… dont give them too much credit when credit isnt due 😉   

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2017

@gocubbies: I do think it was inconsiderate of him to make plans when he knew you guys already had things planned for that day. I will say though that men really can be hard headed sometimes. They just don’t think the way we do. this has happened in many instances with my SO and when I have flipped out (because ya know its like clear as day to me that what he did was inconsiderate to our plans) he kind of has looked at me like I have three heads because he really just did not mean to make me that upset. He flat out has told me that he just did not think it was going to be a big deal. 

Post # 8
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1739 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

It’s a man thing.  My Boyfriend or Best Friend gets confused about what’s happenining when, even with I let him know several times each week – he’s always somehow surprised by most hbig holidays, birthdays and tax day (hello, they’re almost all the same day each and every year!).  It can get old.  He even got a smart phone to use its calendar to remind him of things…. but only uses it for work.  Heaven forbid he program it with his parent’s birthdays or the like.

Add that to the male brains’ ability to allot the wrong amount of time for tasks and you have a mushroom hunting trip the same day as major work around the house.  Sigh.  Sorry, he needs to be directly told in the future that a yard sale lots of yard work WILL take all day, and that you shouldn’t be left home alone during a yard sale – there’s always a need for help, and for a second set of hands around to help move things around, take money and load things into old ladies’ cars.

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