(Closed) Am I being ridiculous?

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
Member
4824 posts
Honey bee

No not only is he wrong, he is doing harm to the children.

Have you discussed your opinions? 

If not, do it.

If yes, remind him its against state policy. They made their decisions in the effort to help those kids. I would even go as far as to do your best to prevent any further contact. Even under the “threat” of telling the state.

Post # 4
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7403 posts
Busy Beekeeper

Yes it would bother me. Personally, I couldn’t continue with a realtionship if my FH is not only not looking out in the best interest of the kids, he’s basically breaking the law by not fully complying with the courts ruling (huge red flag) and to top it off he’s circumventing my wishes as well. You guys got more issues than a little bit. And do you think this is going to get easier after you get married?? She’s got issues, but so does your FH.

Post # 5
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1145 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

@MarryMeTiffany: as soon as you said supervised by the state… he and her have issues. big issues.

Not okay with me.

Post # 6
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3255 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

If you are going to be married, they need to be able to trust you and know that you have their best interest in mind. If their mom is going off on the phone about how much she hates you and their dad isn’t stepping in, then what is going to keep them from feeling the same way about you as she does? 

This wouldn’t fly with me.

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