(Closed) Am i being ridiculous?

posted 5 years ago in Dress
Post # 3
2055 posts
Buzzing bee

@DiamondMom:  Nope, not at all. I don’t even need to look up 1975 since that beauty is already ingrained in my brain. I think it’s perfect for a beach wedding. Rock on!

Post # 4
4429 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@DiamondMom:  wear the dress of your dreams! dont listen to your mom. and so what its your second time around ; ) that does not make it any less special it acually makes it more special.

Post # 5
716 posts
Busy bee

I can understand where she’s coming from, beach weddings do have a more laid back vibe than church/ballroom types.  She’s probably concerned about a train in all that sand.  

I saw a pic of a bride in a satin ballgown on the beach.  It did catch me off guard, I wouldn’t have done it.  But she apparently loved it so good for her.

If you love the dress and will be comfortable and happy in it, go for it.

Post # 6
3415 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Lodge

1975 would be just as lovely on the beach as any Destination Wedding gown they make and sell.  Mom is crazy.

Post # 7
3360 posts
Sugar bee

YOUR wedding ! And that 1975 dress is amazing ! I think it would look fabulous on the beach ! 

Post # 8
2966 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@DiamondMom:  I think your pick is perfect for the beach! If anything, the dress your mom is suggesting is almost on the fancier side. 1975 is so sleek! Go for it! 🙂 

Post # 9
1408 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@DiamondMom:  Nope! It’s your wedding. Wear the dress YOU want. Ours isn’t a beach wedding but it’s outdoors in Florida on the bayside so it still has somewhat of a “beachy” feel and we are having 52 guets. My dress is the Maggie Sottero Divina. It’s perfect and exactly what I wanted. I also had people ask me why I picked this “fancy” of a dress for an outdoor Florida wedding. My response? Because I loved it and it’s what I wanted. lol. I’ve also seen the Divina dress wore at a beach wedding. Do what YOU want & how YOU want to feel on your wedding day!!

Post # 10
46606 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Tell you Mom to Google beach weddings- she wil see all sorts of dresses.

Post # 11
2808 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

wear whatever the hell you want. it’s your wedding. if you want a traditional wedding dress, do it. your wedding, your dress. don’t listen to mom.

Post # 12
4518 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

It is truly impossible for you to be overdressed, regardless of venue. It’s your wedding day!

Post # 13
1094 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I say eff the whole out dated notion of matching dress to venue! This is your BIG DAY! Wear what you love! Or you’ll regret it forever!

Post # 14
3572 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I think the dress you like and your mom’s pick are pretty similar.  I do like your mom’s better.  That being said, it’s your wedding so wear what you love!

Post # 15
3300 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

first of all, Casablanca 1975 IS perfect for the beach. Is your mom paying for your dress? I’m not understanding why her opinion matters so much.

Post # 16
1649 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2000

I’m having a beach wedding and the reason why I’m not wearing lace is because it’s too heavy.  Between the two Casablanca dresses, I like 1975 for the beach better.  Looks a little lighter.  Please remind your mom it is your wedding 🙂

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