(Closed) Am I being ridiculous? (somewhat long vent)

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I just wrote a similar post a few minutes ago. lol. Friends become a little selfish when you are moving on with your life for the better, without them. They might not be so happy in their life and feel left out. I’m going thru the same, but my friend is married, but i know she’s not happy, she cheats. She’s only with her husband for financial support. so when i met my SO, she was negative towards him and doing the same as your friend. saying all guys cheat and lie and don’t believe everything he tells you. Its sad and bothered me that our relationship is strained now, but you are going to build a life with your SO and spend the rest of your life with him. You need to focus on you and him. He is your partner, your supporter and your best friend. I distance myself from anyone who was negative and not suppotive of our relationship, with no valid reason. Because in the end its going to be just you and him. And anyone who isn’t happy for you, then they are missing out. 

Post # 4
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Bumble bee

I’m sorry you’re dealing with that. It sounds like she’s scared about losing part of her support system, and is trying to manipulate you into staying. Unfortunately, she’s the only one who can  help herself. It isn’t your job. Try to be supportive, but ultimately, she’s going to have to create a support system and not misuse it.

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