(Closed) Am I being selfish?

posted 4 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
14026 posts
Honey Beekeeper

You aren’t selfish for feeling that way! Totally normal to be disappointed when something doesn’t happen that you were looking forward to. There’s really no polite way to push the issue though, so I’d try to just let it go and appreciate that they were at least thinking of you. I’m sure they had good intentions. 🙂

Post # 4
11760 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@dreamer1288:  well you have a month left, there’s still time. I’m sure they’re going to do something considering they said they would. Save your disappointment until you actually have a reason to be disappointed.

Post # 5
8474 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

I can see why you’d be upset. I didn’t even get a frigin’ card from my co-workers when I was getting married!

Post # 6
45646 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@dreamer1288:  I can see being a bit on edge about the issue, but, in reality, they still have 3 weeks while you are at work.

Post # 7
1960 posts
Buzzing bee

No, I dont think so! It’s natural to be disappointed when you’re looking forward to something and then it looks like it wont happen. But there’s still 3 weeks until the wedding, maybe theyre just waiting on one small thing to fall into place then they’ll go ahead with it. I wouldnt give up hope just yet!

Post # 8
839 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013 - The front lawn of our church

@Gemstone:  +1

So sorry. I can understand why you feel that way but there’s nothing you can do about it so you might as well move on and enjoy the next month.

Post # 9
7656 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

@dreamer1288:  I can see being disappointed, especially if they told you. It would be different had they kept their mouths shut. You still have some time until the wedding and perhaps they are going smaller than they originally planned or perhpas it just didn’t work out. They still have time, but if it doesn’t work out I wouldn’t approach the subject or anything as there is no polite way to do that. Sorry this happened though.

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