(Closed) Am I being selfish about my engagement ring?

posted 3 years ago in Engagement
Post # 46
439 posts
Helper bee

My ring cost  $200 and I am in love with it. I don’t understand why cost is a thing. My fiance did pick out exactly what I would have chosen for myself and I get a lot of compliments on how pretty it is. And i do understand that regionally and financially your experience will be different than mine. But he may feel he did it with full consideration. It is a token of his love and cost shouldn’t be a concern and neither should other people’s opinion. Amount of money does not equal amount of love.

Post # 47
1629 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2016

kenkokk:  I actually think it’s beautiful!

Post # 48
98 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2016 - City, State

jellyfishea:  do you know his financial situation? (how much he makes etc) I understand how you feel, but if that’s all he can give to you, be proud of it and see the meaning behind it more than the look of the ring itself. 

Post # 49
2327 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2015 - Ruby Princess

yep. don’t feed the trolls.


Post # 50
418 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

I’d be pissed… don’t let anyone tell you that you shouldn’t be.  That’s terrible.

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