- 5 years ago
- Wedding: June 2013
I have a childhood friend that I see maybe twice a year. We get together for lunch and talk for hours, but only every six months or so. Other than that, the only time we ever talk is when we are planning our get togethers. Even though we are facebook friends, I’m pretty sure she doesn’t know I’m engaged. I was waiting to tell her next time I see her but that won’t be til after I send the save the dates out and I need her address before then.
I want to invite her to my wedding and I was going to send her a quick “hey can I get your address for our save the dates” email but then I found out that she’s going through an extremely bad break up and I feel kind of weird just coming out of nowhere with the news of my wedding. Am I being silly? My FI thinks I’m crazy, but I sort of feel like that since she’s going through an awful break up (she ended up moving back home with her parents an hour away, had to quit her job, had the guy arrested because he hit her-really bad stuff), that sending her a random email might make her feel bad. Am I being totally crazy and overthinking?