(Closed) Am I being too controlling in wanting to have some sort of schedule?

posted 7 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 3
1276 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I think exactly how you do and I agree with trying to plan somewhat of a schedule, especially when you know you will be with an indecisive crowd. I hate those “well, what do you want to do now” moments. At least you can have a set agreement of activities with everyone so theres a general flow to the day. 

Post # 4
2154 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Why don’t you just plan an activity or two for each day? Then, even if the rest of the day is just chillin’, it’ll be structured a bit by one meal or outing or whatevs.

Post # 5
893 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Maybe you can plan a specific event for one (or two) of the evenings. Just for those that don’t want a super structured weekend – there is at least something specific going on for a portion of it. Does that make sense?

Post # 6
4520 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I would send out an email with an idea for an activity or 2 for each day, rather than sending an email asking for a schedule…I can only imagine the indecisive email chain that would ensue! 🙂 Just something like, “Hey guys, what do you think of going to xxxx on Friday? And yyyyy restaurant has a great Saturday brunch,” or whatever…just so it’s not totally open!

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