Post # 17
Hehe, thanks guys. I totally failed about not talking about ‘hypothetical weddings’ with my extended family (big get-together this weekend) but that’s okay.
When I got home this afternoon I went and hung out with Mr V, and we ended up talking a bit about it – we were both kind of feeling the same, I think! So we decided not to try hash out the nitty gritty details, but can share any cool ideas that pop up. Might go look at locations, and listen to bands, but it’s all ‘possibilities’, and getting a feel for things, which is cool. We both work best when we have time to think, and don’t have to make decisions on the spot! So having this much time (and non-pressure) is good (you’re totally right, fixicsGirl!).
@bellenga – I totally have! Just ideas – but it takes me long enough to get those sorted 😛 I already got totally excited about pink, and am now kinda over it and thinking plum/(grass) green/white haha. Mr V was quite happy with pink and said the boys would be happy to wear it (e.g. tie) too tho!
So now I’m feeling nice and secure it’s not an issue anymore 🙂 I KNOW it takes him a while to do big things (took him about a year to ask me out!), he likes to feel the way and sound things out subtley with those around him (family and friends, in this case) – he’s just as this as I am, but is just doing his thing. And I love him for it
Post # 18
Ok. Quite a few things your’ve said kinda ring a bell for me. lol. Me and my fiance were in a simmilar boat. kinda. ok here’s the deal. We were friends for 1 1/2 year befor we started dating. he’s 22, I’m 21. I’ll be graduated in a couple of months with a cullinary arts degree and he has one year of school left to get his mechanical engineering degree. Two months into dating we were seriously talking mariage , yes we talked not so seriously about it befor the two month mark. (I think he started talking very very early in the dating relationship. lol) and we’ve talked about pretty much everything. I had a hard time realy planning anything before there was a ring on my finger but I did look around online for some ideas. We didn’t really talk to people very much about plans befor he proposed, then I jumped in with both feet; as much as I could anyway with all the other things I have going on.
“I guess it seems too good to be true? I never believed in soul-matey people or “the one” or anything, but it’s like we’re made for each other.”
I like to say (about my faince) he’s not perfect, but he’s perfect. for me. sigh.
Anywy. Talk to your guy about how your feeling. I’m sure you can work something out. Like mabe you guys can back off the planning for a while, or even untill there is a ring. Seek to find other things to dominate your conversations. So excited for you guys. Hope this helps a little and isn’t to ramblely