(Closed) Am I Being Too Nice? (Controlling ExH)

posted 6 years ago in Legal
Post # 2
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Busy bee

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daisyb214:  You are setting a precedent by doing this. He will continue to do this, because you let him do it. If you are paying the majority of your sons things and only use that money to pay for your sons day care with no financial help, you should be claiming him. 

Id let your ex know that if he wants to go against the court ruling you will be taking him back to court to get more child support. 

Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

Yep, you are being way too nice. He sounds like even though you guys are divorced he still wants to piggy back off you. Tell him to grow a pair, work more and not rely on a baby bonus to get him through life! He is trying to use not seeing your son as a crutch to make you feel bad. He can work normal work hours and see your son on the evenings and weekends – he really has no excuse other than being lazy.

Post # 4
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Busy bee

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daisyb214:  I agree. Using the tax credit isn’t for student load debt. It’s to help cover the cost of raising a child. I’d understand if the time was split more evenly. But since it’s not I don’t see or understand why he thinks it’s just free money you wouldn’t miss seeing as you’re supporting your son a majority of the time.

Post # 5
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Busy bee

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daisyb214:  and he’s basically blackmailing you. Telling you he will stop watching your/his son unless you do what he wants. Nope, girl to do what you have to do.

Post # 6
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Yes, you’re being too nice. You might not “be that way”, but you need to be. 

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