- 6 years ago
I have a Maid and a Matron of Honor. For the showers, they agreed that one would do one upstate and the other one would do one downstate to accomodate my family in both parts of the state. Maid of Honor has her shower all set….date, food, guest list, everything. Downstate Maid/Matron of Honor (who is my sister) has done nothing. I sent her a note today telling her that a few people down there have asked me about the shower and asked if she had come up with any tentative dates…got no response. I don’t want to be pushy, but I”m worried she will wait until the last minute and no one will be able to come or she won’t even bother doing one at all. I will be really upset if half the women in my family get left out because she can’t get it together.
How far in advance should she start planning it? Should I just let it go or wait a few months and bring it up to her again?