(Closed) Am I crazy??

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
630 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

if being “official” is just about the ring than No, i dont think so. If he has committed himself to marrying you then you are already engaged in my opinion

Post # 4
1954 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

I think the person you need to discuss this with is your boyfriend. I personally don’t want to plan any of my wedding before I have a ring of my finger, but that doesn’t mean other people don’t do it differently. The only person whose opinion counts on this topic is your boyfriend’s. I he agrees, then go ahead and book away. 

Post # 5
1844 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

  I agree, I would discuss it with your boyfriend. I know a girl who did that before, her boyfriend told her to book things. She did it, not engaged, and it worked out just fine. A friend of mine bought her wedding dress before she was engaged! I am also a person who worries about things booking, and I’m a June 2012 bride. If it is something that is important to the two of you, and you both agree that it’s okay to book, I would go ahead and do so.

Post # 6
1577 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I agree with the previous posters.. go ahead & book it if your SO is okay with it.  :o)

Post # 7
3305 posts
Sugar bee

I would talk to your SO about it- if you are both in agreement- who cares what others think?

Post # 8
1135 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2009

I just wanted to add my agreement to the pp–if your Boyfriend or Best Friend is okay with booking it, go for it!  If the two of you have decided to get married, you’re engaged in my opinion and it’s perfectly fine to start planning if you’re both in agreement.

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