Post # 1
I hate myself for this but I have a question that I need to get strangers opinions on… I am SO indecisive when it comes to jewelry because I love literally everything. So question–I loveeee my engagement ring, but can’t decide on wedding band. Would it be odd or weird to get like a whole wedding set (single stone ring and matching band) for my wedding and then also when I feel like wearing my engagement ring I can switch them out depending on my mood!?!? I want best of both worlds. I love my solitaire engagement ring but my wedding set would be super blingy…sometimes I feel crazy and other times I feel like I’m a genius?!? Help!!!
Post # 2
Why not? It’s fun to have variety. I have multiple wedding bands that I switch out with my engagement ring and as standalone rings. I’d do it all over again, too. I say go for it!
Post # 3
thank you! I agree! I just don’t want people to think I don’t love my engagement ring–I DO! It’s just that some days I’m feeling more blongy than others and why not have a set for every mood?!? I feel like it is non-traditional but oh well, right?!
Post # 4
I have multiple rings as well! Its nice to have some variety depending on what youre doing/mood/event etc.
Post # 5
You could also look into getting a wrap/enhancer for your engagement ring for the days when you want to be “blingier,” if you don’t want to get a whole new set.
Post # 6
good to know I’m not crazy!!! I just love jewelry so my thought is I will always cherish my original ring but why not have options?? A wedding set as its own thing and then my engagement ring!
Post # 7
Yes girl. I love me some diamonds!
Post # 8
I think a lot of people do this. Definitely not weird. I wouldn’t do it personally but I wouldn’t think any less of anyone who did! Do whatever makes you happy!!
Post # 9
Hell yeah, why not?
I love having a couple rings to choose from. You can also mix and match. I say go for it!
Post # 10
Absolutely not crazy at all! Multiple rings … multiple sets … worn alone … worn together — The important thing is to do what makes YOU happy! Some people prefer to have only 1 set and wear it for their entire married lives, and that is okay. Other people prefer to have multiple rings or sets and switch things up now and again, and this is also okay. There is no right or wrong way! There is only what is right or wrong FOR YOU.
Post # 11
thank you! You are so right!
Post # 12
Not crazy at all! As a jeweler, we’ve had people get another ring due to their career, when they travel, or simply becuase they want something more “toned down” when they go out. It’s more common than you think, hope this helps 🙂
Post # 13
I don’t think it’s crazy. Everybody sees things differently. Some people only wear the set that they were married with and don’t want anything else – and that’s perfectly fine and understandable. Then there’s people like me that like to change things up a bit. I have the set I was engaged and married with, but then, as the years went by, upgrades came along and more rings came and I love and cherish them all.
Post # 14
I’d say as long as you’ve discussed this openly with your future spouse, do what makes you happy! I’m not quite understanding why you’d want another solitaire though if you already have one?
Post # 15
Why wouldn’t you just wear those other rings as right-hand rings? You could wear your engagement ring and wedding band (the one you get married with) always on your left ring finger, and then any additional “blingy” just-for-fun rings would be worn on your right hand whenever the mood strikes you. I guess I just don’t see the need to switch out your wedding set when you have 9 other fingers you could wear rings on?