(Closed) Am I crazy?

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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132 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

well thats how it happened for me…we were walking thru costco one day and out of the blue he asked me to tell him what ring i liked!!  i was soo blown away! and a few months later he proposed!!  guys dont really just talk randomly from my experience at least!!  keep us posted!!

Post # 5
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381 posts
Helper bee

Mr. Tacos brought it up in Jewel.  In September of last year or somewhere around then.  It was weird.  We talked about it now and again, worked out all of the kinks, and now I’m officially “waiting”.  He won’t 100% say “I am going to propose to you”, but he says “I know you’re worried, but you don’t need to worry because I’m not going anywhere”.

He’s also upped the ante on some things I’m catching here and there.  He’s attached a price to a supposed ring which he refers to without connecting to us (i.e. “If one would buy an engagement ring, it should be $x”) and is PROACTIVELY watching wedding shows with me while making it seem like he’s doing me a favor with a sly smile on his face.  He seems extremely interested in watching Rich Bride, Poor Bride and wants to know budgets.

I don’t think a guy who isn’t seriously thinking about it would do that, or even bring up marriage unless he was cornered into it!

Post # 7
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1106 posts
Bumble bee

I wonder the same thing.. my Boyfriend or Best Friend brings it up all the time.. but then he tells me the other day until he knows I wont lose my house (I own my own home and we are Ld and he knows im struggling a bit atm) he wont propose.. Its a bit of a downer because I dont want to have to wait a wholenother year but at the same time I know hes making smart financial decisions for our future. just remember if he wasnt thinking about it and it wasnt on his mind he wouldnt bring it up at all!

Post # 9
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14186 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Technically, yes =]. I don’t think most men start talking about the future and then immediately propose. I think it’s an idea they have to get used to =]. For us we started talking around 2.5 years and got engaged around the 3.5 year mark. Maybe he’s just feeling you out? I think it’s a woman thing to want HIM to bring it up, since he technically does the proposing anyways =]

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