(Closed) Am I crazy or is this totally inappropriate?

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 4
8453 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

@MrsHQuinn:  Pretty sure she’s the crazy one.  I mean, maybe it’s just how she deals with her grief?  Depression can make people do seemingly crazy things.  Or, she’s just crazy, has always been, and always will be.  Either way, I think you sound pretty sane 🙂

Post # 5
3421 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Manhattan Church Rec Center

ignore that trash. stand by your man. speak softly and carry a BIG stick!

Post # 6
1071 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@MrsHQuinn:  Ummm no you are not crazy.  This girl is clearly into your FH and went WAY over the line with that poem.  I think you did the right thing, standing up for yourself and your relationship

Post # 7
1361 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

Honestly I have a lot of absolutely insane friends, the real psychos that flip out over every little tiny thing, and I have never understood them I think it’s ridiculous to be jealous about talking with an old ex or of the Fiance or bf wants to have a guys night or something like that. I guess I’m just very chill with those things, HOWEVER if I would have been in your shoes I would probably have done exactly what you did, maybe even not so calmly, I don’t think you’re crazy at all! I mean sexual innuendoes? The poem? AND she still texts him afterwards? I think you did very very well 🙂 

Post # 8
1638 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@MrsHQuinn:  You did what I would have done. I’m sorry she’s mourning but that is no excuse to try to move on with someone else’s man.

Post # 9
1685 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Wow!  What a manipulative vindictive….

I’d be furious.

Post # 10
925 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

That poem would have driven me to do some crazy things to her! So no, you are not crazy or overreacting in any way. Good for you for being a stronger, more polite person than I!

Post # 11
5786 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2011

I almost always think people are overreacting in these kinds of threads but in your situation I would not have been nearly as nice.

Post # 12
10367 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

If he doesn’t want a relationship with her, it doesn’t matter what she does. It takes 2 to tango, you know? Sounds like he finally got the message and cut her off. Good!

Post # 13
2463 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

i think she was being super inappropriate, but I wouldn’t have messaged her directly–it’s your fi’s responsibility to shut that down

Post # 14
4275 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Yeah that was really disrespectful and an intentional act to piss you off. Both of you just need to ignore her and she will eventually go away. I wouldn’t let it show that it bothers you or is causing a problem in your relationship.  

Post # 15
5405 posts
Bee Keeper

No that is completely inappropriate but honestly the real problem is that you had to get involved and tell her to back off and he didn’t do it first, but rather let it continue. That’s what I would be most concerned about. There will always be other women who don’t have respect for relationships. 

Post # 16
951 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@MrsHQuinn:  Yay, I’m glad your FH stood up for you and deleted her! I’m glad you took a stand – she is way out of line. Men can be so oblivious about what’s friendly and what’s flirting. Laughing You did the right thing, and you are so not crazy.

It took your Fiance a while to get it together, but this is a great opportunity to talk about mutual respect. Maybe even see a couples counsellor to help eachother realize what you can do to show eachother respect! 

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