am I in relationship ?

posted 1 month ago in Relationships
Post # 46
Member
202 posts
Helper bee

catchme :  

I feel for you. This hurts. But better to find someone to actually build a future with than spend your time building sugar spun fantasies. Take care of yourself first, and then put yourself back out there.

Post # 47
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2710 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2017

catchme :  aww, sorry it didn’t turn out the way you want.  It feels bad now but at least you will have the chance to meet someone to have a future with. 

Post # 49
Member
189 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 2029

Contacting you once every couple months=not a relationship.

Post # 50
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30 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2019

I’ve been in something like this before. We both liked each others companies and it always felt like we would try to meet up together when we can. (once a week). He told me he loves me, how pretty I am, buys me flowers, takes me out, introduces me to his parents and family and “boyfriend” like stuff except we never said we were exclusive. I was looking for an exclusive relationship. We did this for about 3 months and I thought he just wanted each other companies since bringing up being my boyfriend was too much for him. He said he liked how things were. At the time I thought, “ok, I think this guy doesn’t want a relationship with me since he brought up he wouldnt care if I found someone else.” So I hooked up with another guy that wanted a relationship with me. 

I hurt his feelings real bad. He asked me why I ruined a good thing. When I think back, I realise now that he wanted to test if I was good enough for him. He wants to see my reaction to the nice things he does. He did this because his last relationship hurt. Maybe that’s what he’s doing to you? If you arent’ patient. just ask him if anything will ever be and figure it out from there. If I would;ve been patient and asked him about being more exclusive, things would’ve been different.

Post # 52
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30 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2019

catchme :  Why did you delete his contact? because of what he said to you?

Post # 54
Member
260 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2019

catchme :  Drop this guy and move on. If he wanted anything real with you he would have spoken up. People go after what they want. He is just not that into you. It sucks but don’t waste anymore time wondering why. 

Post # 55
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2710 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2017

catchme :  you’re doing the right thing blocking.  He just wanted a friend with benefits until he found someone he wants an actual relationship with.   Honestly I would get checked for stds. You don’t know who else he did this with,  who he had sex with on a day to day basis.  I’m sorry. 

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