(Closed) Am I in the wrong? (long rant)

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Post # 3
4524 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

You are not wrong at all. I’d be livid!

Post # 4
3771 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 1999

Are his visits ordered to be supervised, if not that is the first thing I would do.

Post # 5
1400 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

Absolutely agree with the PP. I’d say supervised visits are 100% warranted here. Then you know he’s safe but you don’t have to take away their time together. Its so hard in situations like this because as much as you want you kid to have a relationship with his Dad, if its an unhealthy one then its not worth it. Hopefully he can sort his shit out before he gets himself in trouble again!!

Post # 6
1170 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

Unless the court ordered visitation, my child would not be going near that man. 

My ex husband was an alcholic and a drug user. The court ordered one unsupervised visit and because of it my children almost died.

Please dont send your child back to your mom’s. Sounds like she is enabling his behavior.

What if your child had died? 

It is your business. As far as Im concerned. Your child should not go back. If he wants to see his child then he should get an attorney and fight for his visitation. However I can tell you that most courts will require him to prove his sobriety and take drug test before they would approve a visitation.


Good luck and keep your child away from your mother and your ex.

Post # 7
3082 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

@TexasSpringBride:  ita with you.


OP – I would see a lawyer about visitation. 

Post # 8
2564 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

You are absolutely not in the wrong.

Post # 9
1572 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Wow, your mom is really off her rocker, letting your EX live with her, and supporting these bad habits (even though not directly, she IS, because she is allowing him to live with her, and I am assuming there are no consequences for his bad behaviour).

You are most definitely not in the wrong, you have every right to be concerned and upset. It is your kids’ safety at stake here. Your ex and your mother need to grow up.

Post # 11
2625 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@MrsUNClover:  You are not wrong at all. I would be absolutely furious! You’re mom should have told you about these things that have been happening because they affect you and your son directly. I would not trust your mom, and since she wants to let your son’s father stay with her knowing that he disregards her house rules that’s her problem.

Post # 12
7649 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

You are most definitely not in the wrong, and it is most certainly your business. By the way, your mom needs to wise up.

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