(Closed) Am I insane? Giving gifts to my fiance on our wedding day…

posted 6 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 2
3733 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

It completely depends on your relationship. If he’s used to getting gifts like this in that way then sure go for it. I know my husband wouldn’t enjoy it at all, but only you know how your Fiance will react. 

Post # 3
98 posts
Worker bee

im not a fan of this idea. Sorry bee

Post # 4
121 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2017

I think only you would know if this is something your Fiance would like..

I personally think it’s a little much though. 

Post # 5
3243 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2015

Another vote for a bit much. why not get him one big present, instead of lots of little ones? 

Post # 6
6605 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2014

My fi would lose interest by noon.

Post # 7
1189 posts
Bumble bee


I wouldn’t trust guys to do this properly. After the first gift, i could see the other guys handing the remainders over to get it over with. Sorry.

Post # 8
1726 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

It’s not silly, but I think it might be a little unrealistic for what’s going on that day. It’s crazy hectic! But it really depends on how your day is going to go. If literally nothing else is going on and you think his friends would be able to handle that, go for it.

Post # 9
1705 posts
Bumble bee

I think this is something that a lot of women would love, but I don’t know about a guy.

Post # 10
2235 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

I agree that the guys might sabotage it, not out of cruelty necessarily, just because it is a bit of a faff. Also your fiancé may feel self-conscious receiving all this in full view of his mates. I’d let him be in the moment with his friends for those last hours as a batchelor.

It’s a sweet thought but might not translate as well as you’d like in reality. 

Post # 11
170 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2016 - Estates of Sunnybrook - McLean House

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georgee:  Hmm… if you really want to go thru with the idea… You could wrap them all up and have him open them himself at every hour….LOL but gift it to him all at once.. I think it’s a sweet gesture personally, but guys are less sentimental πŸ˜›  If you two have that same type of thinking then why not πŸ™‚

Post # 12
94 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: March 2016

The idea is a good one if it is something that you know he will appreciate. I gave my husband one gift, a cologne lol As silly as that sounds he refused to spend too much money on a good cologne. I am not a fan of them but I would always see him smelling them and settling for the “cheaper” ones when we would go shopping. I figured that for that one day he should get something he really wanted and would make him feel good so I got him the cologne! He loved it and was actually complimented on it the day of the wedding πŸ™‚ As long as it is meaningful I say do it!

Post # 13
499 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2017

I’d make it some kind of game! As in him having to figure a riddle out for every gift or something! Sounds totally fun and cute!!!! I’d do it!!!! πŸ™‚ 

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