(Closed) Am I just crazy? (long)

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
18637 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I know it’s tough but the best thing you can do is keep quiet.  He doesn’t need to feel like you are pressuring him, and guys like to think that their GFs aren’t even thinking about getting engaged and that they completely suprise them.  It will come.  I would suggest figuring out something to keep yourself busy other than reruns of wedding shows.  Get out a volunteer or maybe take on some temp work until July.  Good luck!

Post # 4
222 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

You really just need to get your mind off of it.  When I found out that he had bought the ring I wanted to scream at him that I KNEW!!! But I know that would ruin the “suprise” & that is what I am most looking forward to.

At first I would bug him daily asking “When, when, when” but I finally realized that if I laid off it was more likely to come.  I made myself busy so I wouldn’t think about it.  Either going to the gym, coaching a young girls softball team, or some sort of home project that keeps my mind off of it.  The only time I really think about it is right before bed, but by than I don’t even want to bring it up.

It’s normal to be impatient about it but the best thing you can do is keep busy & wait for the right time. 

Post # 5
1066 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Well it’s good that you are getting a puppy, at least that will keep you busy 🙂  As hard as it is, you really have to keep quiet, and you’re probably right in that I’m sure it’s coming soon.  Just gotta be patient, thats the best way.  Maybe go to the gym or take up other things so you’re not constantly thinking about it.

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