Post # 1
ok so this is long and probably stupid but…my fiance is amazing in almost every way, but about a month or two ago this girl he knows wrote me on fb saying that I’m desperate for getting engaged so soon blsh blah blah amd that he wants her and not me, and they have mess around…and yet she doesn’t want him, he’s gross, etc…im the 2nd girl is been with and even kissed! And she wasn’t number 1. I trust him when he says nothing happened, he told me about her bs and drama when we first met and before she started shit with me, she’s an alcoholic and does pills…shes someone you don’t trust, later on she apologized for everything she said, her excuse was because I didn’t accept her friends request, that’s retarded! But I still get upset and sick feeling when thinking about the whole thing! I do trust and believe my fiance, so why does this bother me so much???!!!
Post # 3
It bothers you because you are human. If a random person on the street calls you fat, even if you are a slender person – it can still haunt you. You know that logically this person doesn’t know you and there is probably something wrong on their end if they are randomly insulting people on the street, but you still can’t shake it.
Some girls are just crazy! Try not to think about it and it will get less and less bothersome. Be sure to block her on Facebook so that she doesn’t cause trouble again.
You probably went through a lot of emotions when she messaged you, doubt, hurt, jealously, mistrust, anger… It takes a while to get all of that. Give yourself time.
Post # 4
Tickles well said. We are all human and this kind of comment would get to anybody. This girl has a serious problem, and it’s a shame that people like that have to reach out and try to hurt others. Unfortunatly you’re her most recent victim. But in the end you know what’s right and whats true. This girl doesn’t matter. Give yourself some time and you’ll look back to this and just blow it off thinking about how crazy she it, not wondering if anything she says is true.
Post # 5
I’m sorry that this has happened to you. How awful! It sounds like she’s insane. I know it’s hard, but you should try to shrug it off.