(Closed) Am I losing my mind? I feel so sad

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 32
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390 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

Update?

 

Post # 33
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2699 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Take her out of your bridal party. If she doesn’t like it, who cares. She’s not a friend, you don’t need to offer an explanation. This is your day and your relationship. She had her chance to rectify things. Your Fiance sounds like a normal guy who has done what he thinks is right in an odd situation. Ditch the b**ch and don’t feel bad.

Post # 34
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1227 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

This girl sounds completely nuts. Get her out of your life and your bridal party, and don’t invite her to the wedding. Seriously. You do not need someone who wants to undermine your marriage around on your wedding day.

It also sounds to me like your fiance was trying not to offend you by calling out your friend too harshly. From what I read in your posts, I don’t think he was “involved” with your friend at all. It sounds like these situations made him really uncomfortable, too.

Post # 35
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98 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Wow.  You are not at all crazy.  She is way out of line.  This must be hard on you since you love her like a sister.  It sounds like you had a great talk with your fiance and that he has been trying to be considerate of your friendship.  It also sounds like you need to have a talk with this girl.  I have seen a number of posts where brides are upset with a bridesmaid and even considering kicking her out of the wedding party for something that to me is not a big deal or may be a misunderstanding.  However I think you should ask her to step down.  She has been completely inappropriate and she claims to have no idea what you are talking about when you mention her flirtatious behavior.  Major life events, both those good and bad, can really help you find out who should be a part of your life or how much of your life they should be a bart of.  Good luck.

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