(Closed) Am I over him or my guard is up?

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

If someone has hurt you so badly, sometimes it’s just better to walk away then trying to make it work. The new guy, just might be a rebound, or a wake up call to let you know there’s good guys out there.

Post # 4
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

If you dont feel anything then forget about him!

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I would assume you have moved on. Dont punish yourself and keep trying to have feelings if you do not anymore. Life is too short, enjoy yourself and someone you have feelings for 🙂

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Your feelings should come naturally to you. Try not to be in an exclusive relationship with your ex. Just do the casual dating scene for a bit. See if your feelings for him re-egnite. This way there won’t be any added pressure either that you must be with him and only him. Remember, you are casual dating…

If nothing happens for a reasonable amount of time, then move on. This will give you proper closure as well that there really wasn’t anything left to salvage.

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Similar situation happened to me, but I actually brokeup with my ex of 3 yrs. b/c things just weren’t working. He was pushing me away further and further emotionally. I moved forward and very quickly started dating a new guy assuming he was a rebound. My Ex later tried to change his ways and win me back. I honestly felt nothing towards him. 4 years later and I’m enaged to the “rebound guy” and he’s the love of my life! I couldn’t be happier and so happy I never went back to my previous relationship. I say move forward and don’t look back!

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I vote for moving on.  

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