(Closed) Am i over reacting

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 2
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Buzzing Beekeeper

This is harsh- I apologize in advance. 

Neither of you sound ready for marriage.

Post # 3
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Bumble bee

I’m sorry but I would been LONG GONE after the two cheating incidents……..

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I reckon this is a guy you need to let go.

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

Seems to me like you are wasting your life on this guy. Ha had his chances. After what he have done, HE should be the one running after YOU, not the other way around. Leave! You deserve better!

Post # 6
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Helper bee

Its pretty obviously he’s a liar. Why put yourself through the anxiety? Do you want to spend the rest of your life like that? Get out while you can. You’ll never meet Mr. Right, chasing Mr. Wrong. 

Post # 7
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

Are you really so desperate to get married that you’ll settle for a cheater? He’s cheated on you TWICE (that you know of)…. It’s time to find your backbone and walk away. What exactly are the benefits to being in a relationship with someone you cannot trust? 

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Oh gosh. Don’t marry this guy. He’s a cheating loser. It’ll only hurt worse later

 

Post # 9
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Bumble bee

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MrsDtobesoon:  run… run far away! 

You deserve someone who will respect your relationship. And you need someone who will respect you. 

Mail him back his ring and turn off Skype. You will be better off for it, I promise! 

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

You are underacting and yoy have done so a few times now.  Please LEAVE..

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

You say he’s been loyal since moving abroad but… how do you know that? He’s sooooo busy that he can only skype with you once a week? And even then, he’s sometimes too busy for that?? Yeah, girl, he’s still cheating on you.

Post # 12
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2014

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MrsDtobesoon:  You need to kick him to the curb and get a big dose of confidence. This is one of the saddest posts I’ve read in a long time.

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

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MrsDtobesoon:  You two don’t belong together. He cheated on you and now you’re going to be stuck with this anxiety. Break up with him and then work on getting your self-esteem back together. It’ll be rough not being in a relationship when you’ve been with someone for 10 years.

Break out of your “safe” zone and be in a relationship where you want to be with the guy and the guy wants to be with you. There should be a mutual love and respect coming from both ends, but that’s not the case on either side. 

Post # 14
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

This guy doesn’t want to marry you. Relationships require effort from both sides, but a healthy relationship shouldn’t be this hard. He’s shown you how he feels about you by cheating twice and not taking the effort to keep in contact while in a long distance relationship. You’re holding on because you’re scared of letting go. You have to let it go in order to find out what a happy, healthy relationship feels like. 

Post # 15
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2019 - City, State

 

MrsDtobesoon:  I hate to be harsh but….. he’s just not that into you. It makes me sad that you don’t have more respect for yourself. this man has repeatedly cheated on you and yet you had to try and convince HIM to be with YOU? Of course he comes back. You are convenient. He can have his cake and eat it too. Please love yourself enough to leave him and never look back. You deserve so much better than what he is giving you.

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